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I turned around and saw a handsome black man waiting patiently, with a cart full of groceries and a warm smile that briefly invigorated my tired spirit after a long day of work.
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I smiled and apologized for holding him up.
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Article content continued After all, 50 years ago in many states it was still illegal for us to marry anyone who was not also black. The gravity of that is not lost on me.
As a young girl and even throughout college, I was frequently annoyed when my peers would suggest that I would magically find a partner if I exclusively pursued black men.
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Article content continued Still, at times I feel ashamed for dating outside my race.
I am an ally to my people, but I have not connected with them in the deepest way possible — romantic love. How can I support the advancement of black people if I have never let down my walls for a black man myself?
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